Portrait of Melody Taylor Stark in Monrovia, CA Feb. 19, 2021.
The last time Melody Taylor Stark held her 84-year old husband, Bill, was March 13, just before the lockdowns. (Francine Orr / Los Angeles Times)
COVID 2021

Vaccination rates rise in nursing homes, but when will families be able to visit?

Doctors, residents and family members have begun pushing to ease the crushing isolation in nursing home facilities, but regulators haven’t yet loosened rules that block most visitation.

Melissa Traub hasn’t hugged her 92-year-old mom since March. Like countless others locked out of a family member’s nursing home because of COVID-19, she has spent nearly a year listening helplessly on the phone as her aging mom struggles to comprehend her isolation.

“I have to hear her crying when she’s having an anxiety attack, asking, ‘Why can’t I just come live with you?’” Traub said. “She’s incontinent. She’s in a diaper. I would have to move to a bigger place and hire live-in help.”

But Traub’s mom is now fully vaccinated, as are most of the residents in her Reseda nursing home. Traub has had her first injection, and her second is scheduled in the coming days. So why can’t she go give her mom a hug?

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Because regulators haven’t yet loosened strict rules that impede most visitation.

As vaccination rates climb rapidly in U.S. nursing homes and the number of new coronavirus infections plummets, doctors, residents and family members have begun pushing to ease the crushing isolation that descended on the facilities last spring. But it’s not as simple as just opening the doors and hoping for the best.

What about the residents and staffers who refuse to get the shots? Can you segregate nursing homes based on vaccination status, creating two very distinct classes within the same building — one allowed to hug their grandkids, eat together and play bingo, the other left alone and isolated indefinitely?

Complicating the equation is the fact that many of the residents and staffers hesitating to take the vaccine are people of color, many of whom are less likely to trust the assurances of a healthcare system that has not historically worked for their benefit.

As regulators begin to grapple with the science and ethics of reopening, despondent residents and their families are left waiting.

“It just sucks,” Traub said. “Hopefully, it’ll all be over soon and she’ll be alive when it is. But there’s always the horrible possibility that she won’t make it that long, we won’t ever see her again.”

In Los Angeles, for example, so many people now have immunity to the coronavirus from past infections and vaccination...

When COVID-19 began its deadly march through nursing homes last spring — it has killed more than 160,000 residents and staff members nationwide so far — the only way for the beleaguered facilities to fight the disease was to lock down, cutting off their fragile inhabitants from families and friends. But those early days stretched into weeks, and the weeks into months. In March, it will have been a full year.

And though the coronavirus is a swift and obvious killer, the crushing isolation created by the lockdowns has taken a more subtle, but still devastating, toll. Depression, always a concern in nursing homes, is on the rise, according to caregivers. Many residents have lost weight because they’ve simply stopped eating. “Failure to thrive” — a term more commonly associated with undernourished infants — is increasingly applied to elderly residents in long-term care facilities, say doctors who work in them.

That’s why, as more and more homes complete their two-dose vaccination regimens, geriatricians and advocates for the elderly are pushing to reopen to visitors as soon as possible. “More nursing home residents have been vaccinated than the rest of the community,” said Molly Davies, who serves as an ombudsman for long-term care residents and their families in Los Angeles County. “At some point, a nursing home is going to be the place to be.”

But it’s not easy or automatic to take that step. Though the vaccine appears to do an excellent job preventing serious illness and death, it’s still unclear whether a vaccinated person can become infected and transmit the virus to others. And despite the carnage wrought by COVID-19 in nursing homes, there are still plenty of people in them who are reluctant to get the injections.

Dr. Michael Wasserman.
Dr. Michael Wasserman is past president of the California Assn. of Long Term Care Medicine. (Al Seib/Los Angeles Times)

“I think the government’s nervous about making decisions at the federal level and that filters down to the state level, but the residents, the families and the caregivers have had enough,” said Dr. Michael Wasserman, past president of the California Assn. of Long Term Care Medicine, which represents doctors, nurses and others working in long-term care facilities.

In the early days of the pandemic, when family members begged to be allowed to visit, nursing homes had to turn them away because their individual rights were far outweighed by the risk to everyone else in the facility. “Now, we’re quickly approaching a point where, if you’re not vaccinated in a nursing home, the primary risk is to yourself,” Wasserman said.

The California Department of Public Health is “in the process of evaluating potential adjustments to visitation policies in nursing homes while also remaining focused on ensuring all nursing home staff and residents have the opportunity to be fully vaccinated against COVID-19,” spokeswoman Kate Folmar wrote in an email to The Times.

This month, the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention reported that 78% of residents who have been offered a vaccine took it, but only 38% of staff members did.

Current state guidelines allow visitors in residents’ rooms where community spread is low, but so far only a handful of rural California counties qualify. State officials say several more could reach the threshold next week. In dire circumstances, such as imminent death, family members have also been allowed “compassionate care” visits in full mask and gowns.

Outdoor visits — with no touching, mandatory masks and six feet of separation required at all times — have been permitted statewide since the summer. But many homes have limited space and staff to supervise such visits, making them hard to schedule at the best of times and subject to cancellation when a facility experiences an outbreak, according to family members.

And they’re no substitute for normal visits.

A couple embrace each other and smile for a photo
Melody Taylor Stark with her husband, Bill. They got a few outdoor visits at Bill’s nursing home, but Stark knew things were bad when her previously upbeat husband “started crying and saying this is no way to live.” (Los Angeles Times)

The last time Melody Taylor Stark held her 84-year old husband, Bill, was March 13, just before the lockdowns. They kept in touch the best they could electronically, but the technology was unfamiliar and glitchy. Bill missed two telemedicine appointments with doctors outside his nursing home because the iPad used for such visits was locked and the employee who knew the password wasn’t at work, Stark said.

When state health officials began allowing limited outdoor visitation, she thought for sure she’d get to see him soon. Instead, she got a “constant flow of pushback” from the administrators of the Arcadia home, who seemed nervous about opening up without explicit permission from the corporate owners of the facility and the county health department.

Eventually they got a few outdoor visits, but she knew things were bad when her previously upbeat, optimistic husband “started crying and saying this is no way to live.”

He died in November. She never got to hold him again.

This story originally appeared in the Los Angeles Times, a Lookout content partner.